Recognizing Technologically Facilitated Intimate Partner Violence

Technologically facilitated abuse will often occur in tandem with traditional forms of intimate partner violence. However, it is still possible that one form of abuse may arise without the other, or that it may be deceptively hidden from you. It is crucial to be aware of the warning signs that may provide an indication of potential abuse from your partner.

  • Your partner seemingly knows details about your private conversation and emails

  • Your partner has a strong sense of what you are up to at any point of the day

  • Your partner shows up to your location without being welcomed

  • Your partner is strict about what you send to other people and checks your text logs

  • Your partner is constantly demanding and harassing you for your status and picture proof

  • Your partner starts contacting your friends or family to check up on you

  • Your partner pressures you to send intimate pictures to them, especially with face or identifying features

  • Your partner has set up a new camera or security system that seems unnecessary.

  • You notice a unauthorized device logged into your social accounts

  • You often receive random login notices

  • You notice apps on your phone you did not download

  • You find emails that have been read, marked unread, sent or deleted from your account, but not by you

  • Your devices are draining battery faster, there may be hidden programs running in the background